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Mom, how was that before?
What is best given to your mother? Attention! Because even if we love Mum from the heart - we usually know less about her than we think. To strengthen the mother-daughter relationship , we reveal some tricks.
There is rarely any reason to talk about things like, who is my mother, if she is not my mom? And how was she when I did not exist yet? B. as a pubescent teen? But these memories are an emotional gold mine. They make you laugh, disbelievingly shaking your head, sometimes even crying. And finally, a little bit closer together. Because the more you know about your mother, the more the roles become blurred. Instead of just settling on "child" or "parent", one creates space for a relationship at eye level. Something like friendship and a strong mother-daughter relationship arises.
Granted, your own mother's inhibition to ask about the first kiss or worst moment of her life is a bit higher than her best friend's. After all, we also want to see our mothers in a certain light. In our favorably illuminated dream concept, mom and dad fell in love immortally at first sight and never had any problems since then. And of course Mama knows an answer to everything and is not afraid of anything - after all, that's her job as a super heroine of everyday life.
But anyone who overcomes his skepticism and simply asks about it, still has an experience: the fact that it is impossible to disenchant your own mother. We will always look through the pink glasses. Despite her teen photos with perm or her yellowed poster by Robert Redford. This fact is somehow ... reassuring. You also find out a lot about yourself, because you automatically wonder in which points you resemble his mother and in which one is fundamentally different.
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Where should one just start with questioning? 15 suggestions for a conversation between mother and daughter ...
1. Mom, what's the first thing you can remember?
2. What did you want to become sooner?
3. Was it important to you if I became a boy or a girl?
4. Who was your first big love?
5. And who broke your heart for the first time?
6. What are you proud of?
7. Where and with whom did you have the best summer of your life?
8. Would you change something in your life if you could?
9. How and where did you meet my father?
10. Where would you like to travel (alone)?
11.What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
12. Do you have a secret talent?
13. What was the biggest compromise you ever had to make?
14. What do you think I have inherited from you?
15. What did you really need a lot of courage to do?
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