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- How internet dating helps to find the right person
- 1. At least there's a good story
- 2. There is always something to learn
- 3. Detect disinterest faster
- 4. Some people write nicer than they really are
- 5. There are things you should not say on the first date
How internet dating helps to find the right person
Online Dating is completely useless, if not at least the dream partner jumps out? Not even close! Because there are actually some important lessons that you can learn!
Anyone who has ever tried to get to know a partner in the endless expanse of the Internet will - if he is not a giant lucky guy - have noticed one thing: The search is damn hard and often ends in vain. While tapping your fingers on dating apps like Tinder, one wonders one day or the other: "Does this bring anything here ?!"
A question that we can answer yes. Because even if you do not meet great love on the internet, you can learn a lot about men and especially about yourself in online dating . These five things for example:
1. At least there's a good story
The Date is a conceited rascal who likes to hear himself talk or a whiny mother's boy? Of course it is annoying when you have pimped yourself extra and drove an hour on the subway. But the thought of being able to share the story later with the girlfriends is balm for the soul. And by the way, the perfect revenge on the idiot who is sitting in front of you.
2. There is always something to learn
With every date, be it the dream man or the complete opposite, it becomes clearer to us what kind of person we are looking for. This lesson will not let us fall so fast on well camouflaged rivets and brings us a bit closer to what we need.
3. Detect disinterest faster
They had some dates and butterflies in their guts, only he's behaving somehow weird ... Either he always invites at least one of his friends to your dates (attention, Friendzone!) Or he will only contact you if you do it first. A painful but mostly true truth: He is not on you. It just helps to pick up the broken heart and get out of the way as quickly as possible. Small consolation: next time you know better!
4. Some people write nicer than they really are
The news before a first date can often be quite promising. Do not worry about planning your next family vacation! Because if one thing about online dating is impractical, then you do not have the other one in front of you. Exactly that ensures a lot of tension - and sometimes unpleasant surprises. On the other hand, someone could win your heart into which you did not have too many hopes.
5. There are things you should not say on the first date
One thing you learn when you suddenly have many first dates: not all topics should be addressed the same. Religion and politics are definitely one of them, but also family planning and sexual preferences should be deleted from the conversation list. Just as a reminder ...
