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- Great women and the magic of cordiality
- Great women and the charm of imperfection
- Great women and the magic of courage
- Great women and the power of exuberance
... and what we can look forward to from you
Great women look to their own strengths, which makes good mood - and gives stunning charm. What makes us strong, unique and lovable - and what pinches and evil.
Every one of us knows at least one woman whom she admires secretly or obviously. For taking in a whole room with a single beam smile . Or that she can tell so insanely rousing - regardless of whether she talks about her last trip to India or about the annoying queues at the supermarket checkout. Because whenever we meet these super-women at parties, in the circle of friends or in the job, they only spray with charm and energy. And we ask ourselves the question: How do great women do that? Do you master a sophisticated charisma art? Or is there something of this particular sparkle in each of us?
Great women and the magic of cordiality
One thing is certain: the secret of such a magical charisma lies neither in exaggerated talkativeness nor in a grand entrance. "A personal charisma is not a question of an extroverted temperament, but a great charisma is often achieved simply by treating others with love and fairness, " says psychologist Eva Wlodarek, author of the book "I no longer overlook anyone - gaining greater aura" (Here order at Amazon.de ).
Those who are open to the interests and concerns of others, win hearts and stand out from the tumult of the indifferent. "Bringing bright moments to other people makes you shine in the end, " says charisma expert Eva Wlodarek.
It is not a matter of course, to be able to look at the colleague already at the tip of the nose, that she feels bad and could take a hug. Or to feel that even a tiny compliment of the girlfriend would now give a lot of energy. By a spontaneous "madness, how great you got everything always gewuppt!" You make your counterpart simply a joy - and at the same time shows how much sympathy and cordiality is in one. An additional plus: "Women often rate the compliments of other women higher than those of men, because they have a finer sense of true strengths, " said Wlodarek.
It does not always have to be compliments. It's also special to give a smile. Because it enriches others - without us expecting anything in return. Equally adorable: really listening to someone without immediately taking the first opportunity to talk about themselves again.
Great women and the charm of imperfection
Let's think more about which women we feel a "So would I like to feel", then these are not the immaculate Model beauties. Rather, rather those who proudly bear their smile like little trophies on their faces. Or those who treat themselves to a Currywurst with fries - if they feel like it. Because there are more important things to them than paying attention to a perfect weight. Because they are relaxed. And stand by yourself and your lifestyle . Just because someone has stunningly long legs or is always styled top, he leaves finally for a long time no lasting impression. Self-love - that is the key to uniqueness. If you can really enjoy, do not pretend, but admit that he loves orange asterisk leggings and has a weakness for pointless pre-evening series, which looks authentic and enthusiastic us. In the end, just funny imperfections such as the unruly curly mane or the tendency to desk chaos are our trademarks. They make us unique and adorable.
Great women and the magic of courage
Let's go! Make the third year in a row holiday in the Lüneburg Heath, although all the friends of the backpacker-freedom feeling in Thailand rave about and you raise vigorously for your sheep-Faible. It's your life after all - live it by your rules! That makes you strong, therefore interesting and gives you more inner satisfaction. But be honest too, if you do not like what others do or like - whether that's a shrill hat or the move to the pampa. Anyone who always puts his flag in the wind avoids small friendships. But will never be appreciated for its straightforwardness.
Great women and the power of exuberance
If you let your joy of life run wild, you realize quickly: It's totally okay to laugh out loud in a crowded subway. Tap the boss exuberantly on the shoulder or wear the favorite sneakers to the evening dress. Surely you will reap more admiration than stupid sayings. Because this exuberance conjures us a glint in the eyes and an excited blush on the cheeks. And in the end, it's just this power aura that captivates us in other women. Great women are just not always reserved or controlled. You also do not want to be. Just get away with this good mood corset! As soon as we pepper it in the corner, it will come to the fore all in all that is in all of us: an amazingly beautiful woman .
