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When people do not do you good
Everyone has a bad day and we understand. But some people just do not do us good in the long term. These signs indicate that a person is poison to you.
1. Manipulation is her hobby
Everybody blasphemes from time to time. But here it depends on the "how". To pull over someone should not dominate the conversation. How else can we be sure that this person does not blaspheme as much about us behind our backs? Poisonous people talk to you so badly about other friends that after the conversation you are suddenly mad at your best friend. They play other people against each other, without us noticing. Such persons are artists of manipulation. Playfully they cast a spell over us and make us do exactly what they want. This also works wonderfully for compassion, for example. You always do a girlfriend's favor because she is so terribly stressed. And all the time? But nothing comes back. Think about it. A friendship consists of give and take . These people play games with us. Their intention is to have the power over us - which nobody, except ourselves, should have.
2. They give you feelings of guilt
Somehow this one person keeps making me feel bad - whatever. This sounds familiar to you? Take care of yourself. Unlike us, toxic people always seek mistakes from others and never from themselves. At the same time, they consistently give us the feeling that we are to blame for everything. If you are in a bad mood - that is, always - we take into consideration and automatically think that we did something wrong. So we follow the person to apologize. But wait a minute - for what? The next moment this man is your best friend again. Their extremes attract us magically - but the mood swings do not do us any good in the long run. Such people only use us to give themselves a good feeling.
3. They make you doubt about yourself
If you feel uncomfortable in the presence of a supposed friend, something is wrong. Some people have the urge to bring us down - to feel better about ourselves. For our self-confidence, these people are poison . When you have been with them, you do not feel comfortable with yourself afterwards because you are constantly being taught that you are not good enough and make mistakes. "Really? Well, you can do it that way, but I would never do that .. "is a typical phrase from these people who immediately makes us doubt ourselves. Such behavior has nothing to do with friendship. When friends criticize us, they do it to make us happier people. They are there to build us, not to put us down.
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