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Tinder: How to end a failed date

A failed date? Grab the escape!
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  1. First date
  2. The malaise
  3. The ex-lie
  4. The phone trick
  5. The escape
  6. The truth

First date

They chatted for hours, talked on the phone for hours, sent funny photos back and forth, and then it happened. The first date is upon us. Days before, butterflies begin to beat and thump their hearts wild. Then the evil awakening on the spot: The pink painted dream evaporates into a nightmare come true. The desire to vanish instantly was rarely greater than it is now. No panic! We have tips & tricks on how to gallantly escape and end your date in such a situation .

The malaise

You suddenly feel a sharp pain in your head? Or a cramping of the stomach? Then they have no choice but to come home as soon as possible. He who is ill, belongs to bed. If they go to the toilet for a long time, that makes their suddenly arising malaise more credible. They can cleverly combine this trick with a avoidable allergy. In the dessert were nuts? They are still allergic to nuts. The tablets have unfortunately left them in the bathroom cabinet. From home. With a swelling neck is certainly not to joke.

The ex-lie

The separation from her ex was hurtful and horrible? Have you spent several nights sobbing your pillow and thinking of a 'how to win back' tactic? Not really? Never mind. At least now it is time to cry to the ex really nice again and their counterpart will realize that this is nothing. Show him your last relationship and tell him how her ex left her ice-cold after wonderful years. They are just not ready for a new relationship. Say goodbye on the pretext of not being in the mood for a date, but wishing him well.

The phone trick

You can not find common topics and the spark just does not want to skip? Then it's high time to take flight. They disappear under an excuse to the toilet and tell their previously informed girlfriend that she can start her escape call. When the phone rings, your friend will tell you about a bad incident in which they are absolutely necessary. The classic: a water damage. It becomes a macabre when they advance the death of a loved one. Do not wear too thick. If you want to play it safe, you can call your friend automatically half an hour after the start of the date. Now it is up to them whether they have found favor with their counterparts or not. Previous signals make communication easier. No matter which variant you choose, here is definitely required acting talent.

The escape

If they do not get any further with courtesy and theatrical glamor, they choose the 'off-the-middle' variant. Now it's time to take flight as fast as possible. Again, they disappear under an excuse to use the bathroom. In truth, they head to the counter, pay their bill and leave without detours the restaurant or the bar. If this variant but a number seems too hard, leaves the left behind a piece of paper on which he declares his retreat: "Sorry, but I do not think that will be anything between us. " Surely the easiest way to end a date .

The truth

It's certainly not the nicest, but the most honest way to end a failed date. You do not have to go straight into the house with the door or escape after the first two seconds. Stay charming and honestly say what you feel. Do you feel the same way? Fine! Just try to laugh together about this faux pas and then go their separate ways. Who knows, maybe this very moment will be the icebreaker that they have waited in vain for several hours. If you give them love glares, it is even more important to be honest. They would have expected the same from him. A simple "I think that does not fit between us" is often enough to signal the other what is going on.

A little tip: With blind dates like Tinder, you can never be too careful. Even if they feel paranoid at first, they are gentle. We all like to put on the pink glasses. Tell a good friend or a good friend beforehand where, when and especially with whom they meet. Listen to her gut feeling! In case of doubt this is always right!

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