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Of the love one expects in the 20's above all magic. And the man has to rock properly.
It is the time that promises the most ease. Everything is possible. Would you just not take yourself so seriously. We give relationship tips for all under-30s ...
THE DISCOVERY YEARS
In our 20's, we collect all the adventure stories that we'll talk about later. Because a lot is happening to us now. We seek our place in the world and also in love: we dance, flirt, smoke, drink a lot and sleep little. Love turns as fast as a merry-go-round this decade. And always the danger comes with being thrown off. We try with different men - and as a single. Sure, it hurts to see the chosen one kissing with another one. Or if the alleged six-in-the-lottery man turns out to be a rivet after a few months. But these are the years for that: You can sleep with the wrong men, drown in lovesickness and even be unfaithful yourself. According to the "Trial and Error" principle, we practice love affairs. The consequences are not as serious as later - with a ring on the finger and a child's hand. Now let everyone make one: The mom does not ask for the first grandson and grandma, when to finally marry. Because they know how magical the nights are when you come home in the morning with your feet sore with your feet and your lips swollen with smooching - and remembered later with glowing cheeks.
3 Relationship Tips for LUCK: 1. DO NOT TAKE THUS AGAIN. Uncertainties just laugh away. 2. Enjoy the singing a lot, much more. 3. Have fun with the sex. No man pays attention to bacon rolls.
WHAT WE WANT TO DO WITH 20 FROM MEN
The important thing is that the sparks spray when he looks you in the eye. Finally we have the dream of the cool prince in our heads. Although he does not have to have a big wallet, but a crisp butt and a good taste in music. In general we have pretty clear ideas there. That's why sometimes we do not get involved with a man because he has the wrong hair color or is two years younger. Another time, however, one stays with one, although one knows: this is none for aging. After all, we still have plenty of time left to decide which home savings contract to conclude. So we just wait until a better man comes. Generally you always keep your eyes open in the 20s - even in a relationship . Why? Because we do not have to make ourselves comfortable with the first or second. In no case do you want to think later: "If only I had ...!"
THE THING WITH THE SEX
Physically, we are the toughest at this time. Nevertheless, we feel rather uncertain. We are busy with pleasing others. Also during sex. Instead of your own satisfaction, it's all about the perfect performance: Take in your stomach! Do you like it? Am I just doing a stupid face? Are my legs shaved smooth enough? The main thing, the guy in bed keeps us for Aphrodite personally. It happens that we sleep with someone because we want to test our seduction skills. Not because we pass away with pleasure. But over time, we learn to listen more, become more confident, and then it gets really good.
WHAT LOVE BRINGS EVERYTHING
The life of the partner in this decade is usually not so firmly tied to your own. There is more "me" than "we". So you go to Barcelona to study while staying in Wuppertal. Long-distance relationships are now best kept and easier to enter. A new job or the long planned world trip have priority. Love can wait. It does not bother us so much that he smokes in the apartment or leaves his socks lying around everywhere. The question 'Can I live with this quirk forever?' let's face it later. We also believe that a little education can change him.
What we do not take so easily: the heartache . In these years we are suffering severely. The curtains are closed for days and we are hidden under the covers. That's because we give our hearts a lot more carelessly and do the weirdest things to a man - like driving hundreds of miles for a kiss or a hug. Simply because we are even less careful and have not been injured so often. Accordingly, it hurts the first few times when we are rudely pushed by Cloud Seven. With the years and with the experiences we realize: Even a broken heart can heal. For real.
